Hi there, Dr. Irena here,
Your love relationship mentor; bringing you the Relationship Success Cards!
I would love to accompany you for the next 12 months with weekly tips about a successful love relationship.
Relationship Success Cards were created by Dr. John Grey of "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus".
Now, although I call it Married Love Success; you don’t have to be married. You may be engaged, or be in a committed relationship without the legal forms. Married Love Success could just as powerfully be called “Partnered” Love Success.
Let me tell you a bit about myself and why I want you to succeed in your love relationship.
I am a retired physician, specializing in Ob/Gyn. In my years of practice I have heard the same complaint of thousands of women: Their marriage had gone stale, they felt their husbands didn’t really listen to them, didn’t appreciate all they were doing, or worse: they didn’t feel loved and cherished anymore.
I was a lot like them. Working grueling hours as a doctor, raising five children, taking care of the household took its toll. I didn’t have time left to invest into my marriage, and I thought it should be easy if he was the right one…RIGHT?? It shouldn’t be WORK! I already was stressed out from work!
I just wanted my husband to really listen to me, to understand me on a deep level, and support me not only financially, but also emotionally and in our day-to-day life.
My husband was supposed to be the one to supply me with recharge energy, and love, and compassion, and yada yada yada…
Too bad that he felt the same way. I should be the one helping him out on all fronts, including the house, the bills, the kids, the frakking dog…AND make sure his mother, father, siblings etc. got their birthday and holiday cards because he would always forget…
See what I mean? There was a HUGE disconnect.
I don’t want this to happen to you.
A disconnect, if left to fester, becomes a rift, then a divide that is hard to bridge.
And then life totally sucks. If you are unhappy in such a foundational relationship, everything else is impacted. The way you treat your kids, your friendships, your job…
I used to feel frustrated, angry, resentful and bitter.
But then, after YEARS of misery, and hopelessness, just sucking it up…I finally found a way to turn this bleak existence into an extraordinary love relationship of love and partnership.
I will let you know how in a little bit.
For now, I just want you to know that my husband and I have reconnected on such a deep, passionate level that people tell us: You are like teenagers in love!
And that’s exactly how I feel!
I am happy, every day, and grateful for our love and appreciation of each other.
Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING, has become so much easier!
Gone are the fights over who had the worse day and therefore shouldn’t have to do the dishes. Or the cat’s litter boxes. There is no more resentment over unfairly divided chores. No more worry about whether the other would agree with a decision. We feel supported by one another in every aspect of our life.
I promised I’ll tell you about HOW this miracle came to be.
Well, it WAS like a miracle. But it had many years of experience and learning leading up to it.
After I retired as a physician I became a Martial Arts instructor and studied the virtues of Bushido.
Because the ancient Wisdoms of the Orient fascinated me, I trained to become a Reiki master practitioner.
In Reiki, the process of allowing the “flow of the universal life force energy” to heal, relax or energize oneself is paramount.
This triggered researching the powerful Law of Attraction, made known world-wide by the move “The Secret”.
So, I trained and became certified as a Law of Attraction coach and had great success with clients to improve their life.
Still, all of this didn’t quite fully explain how my husband and I were able to go from blah to bliss.
I am a scientist at heart, and unsolved mysteries intrigue me and beg to be investigated!
I therefore did extensive research into the science of the brain; how memory is engraved into neural pathways, and how these pathways can be reprogrammed.
I came up with a revolutionary, cutting-edge technique to address painful memories and release the emotional attachment to them, thus healing the present. I am calling this tool NeuroYouth TM
All in all, a system started to emerge. A way to improve every aspect of a person’s life.
By using this system and the tools associated with it, my clients had amazing success of healing. Not only of healing emotionally, but even of healing physically.
I can tell you many stories about such miracles happening to people of all ages.
For today, I want to leave you with this introduction of me and my work, and explain what you can expect from the Relationship Success Cards.
This first blog post is likely much longer than subsequent ones.
I mean, I know you are busy. We all are, and I don’t want to belabor you with endless verbiage.
I actually came up with an idea. I will pick cards for the week and base the training on these!
If it sounds a bit too woo-woo, don’t worry! Like I said, I am a scientist at heart and you may even ask me about the theory of relativity…which, by the way, is brilliant in its simplicity.
Anyway, the weekly blog posts and videos will dive into an aspect of developing a successful love relationship, with training and tips. Like I said, they are based on “relationship cards” developed by Dr. John Grey of “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”.
I will release each new post and video on Sunday and hope you will peruse them freely!
As always, I would LOVE to see your comments below!
Did you like the content? Was it helpful?
What would you like me to talk about? No topic is too weird or taboo. Well, if it is, I’ll tell you…
Let me know how to make it better!
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